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"He wants a baby. I don't." Sep 18, 2017

Finding Common Ground When You and Your Partner Disagree About Becoming Parents

It c...

The Advantage of Ambivalence (and the Downside of Certainty) Aug 07, 2017

Certainty can look good in the face of not having it. When you feel vulnerable, are in e...

"I am the definer of me." Jul 04, 2017

The Mantra©, which is from our book Motherhood - Is It For Me? Y...

"I have had clarity before about many things." Apr 10, 2017

The Mantra©, which is from our book Motherhood - Is It For Me? Your Step-by-Step Guide t...

Making A Resolution With Clarity Jan 14, 2017

Do you make New Year's resolutions? What is a resolution? The exact definition is: "a fi...

What NOT to Say to Someone Struggling with Motherhood Indecision Nov 29, 2016

Women who can’t answer the question, “Do you want to be a mom?” or “W

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Being Stuck Takes More Work Than You Think Nov 15, 2016

How do you build momentum when you have felt stuck for so long? Though "stuck" sounds li...

Men: You Can Decide to Decide About Fatherhood Nov 01, 2016

Dear Men,

I’ve worked with so many of you over the years, but I still feel sad when you...

Indecision Oct 04, 2016

I recently had the pleasure of musing over Edward Ruscha’s 1982 Indecision, which ha

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Dahlias and Dogwoods and Other Happy Thoughts Sep 13, 2016

When you’re locked in the middle of an indecision loop trying to decide if you want to b...

How to Find Freedom When Making Decisions Jul 31, 2016

If you were asked, “Do you want to be a parent,” how would you answer? Yes? No? What if ...

Discovering Your Heart's Desire About Motherhood Jun 04, 2016

Have you decided if you’re going to be a parent?

If not, do you know why you haven’t ma...